Title: What do men say when they have sex? Analysis of hot topics and hot content on the entire network in the past 10 days
Recently, language interaction in gender relationships and intimate behaviors has become the focus of heated discussions on social platforms. This article combines the data from the entire Internet in the past 10 days to sort out the common discourse patterns of men in intimate moments, and attaches a hot topic ranking list for reference.
1. Popularity list of gender topics on the Internet in the past 10 days

| Ranking | Topic keywords | Search volume (10,000) | Platform popularity index |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Intimate speaking skills | 128.6 | Douyin/Xiaohongshu |
| 2 | Male Dominant Language Pattern | 95.2 | Weibo/Hupu |
| 3 | Communication barriers during sex | 87.4 | Zhihu/Bilibili |
| 4 | A complete collection of couple secret words | 76.8 | Douban/Tieba |
2. Analysis of common male discourse types
According to a questionnaire survey on gender-emotional accounts (sample size: 5,200 people), the five types of words most commonly used by men in intimate moments are as follows:
| Type | Proportion | Typical examples | female acceptance |
|---|---|---|---|
| Praise type | 42% | "You are so beautiful" "So comfortable" | 89% |
| Inquiry | 28% | "Is this good?" "Would you like to change positions?" | 76% |
| Strong type | 15% | "Call me husband" "Say you are mine" | 63% |
| silent type | 10% | (body language only) | 58% |
| joke type | 5% | "Give me a five-star review" "Charging completed" | 47% |
3. Hot topics of discussion on social platforms
1.DouyinPopular challenge: #boyfriend的虎狼词, the topic has been viewed 320 million times, and the most liked video shows 20 different styles of male expression.
2.little red bookThe notes show that the search volume for "communicative partner" increased by 210% week-on-week. The notes emphasize the importance of verbal feedback during intimacy.
3.WeiboThe poll shows that 67% of women believe that "sincere and natural expression" is more important than deliberate love words, triggering a discussion about "greasy love words".
4. Professional advice
1. Emotional expert @ Gender Observation recommends that men should avoid using Internet buzzwords (such as "Bao, I got an infusion today", etc.). In the survey, the disgust rate of such expressions reached 72%.
2. Psychological counselors remind: There are three principles to pay attention to when using intimate language:respect boundaries,timely feedback,avoid comparison.
3. The latest research shows that establishing an exclusive vocabulary library between partners can improve the quality of intimacy. This kind of "secret language" is 34% more satisfying in long-term relationships.
5. Selection of real user cases
| Case type | Male original words | female reaction | Number of likes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Heartwarming | "Are you tired? We can take a rest." | Moved to tears | 82,000 |
| Rollover model | "You are better than your ex-girlfriend" | Quiet spot | 47,000 |
| Creative | "We are creating the most beautiful art" | A knowing smile | 69,000 |
The statistical period of the data in this article is: June 10 to June 20, 2023, covering 20 mainstream social platforms, with a total sample size of more than 150,000 pieces of interactive content. It is recommended that couples choose appropriate communication methods based on their relationship stage and mutual acceptance. RememberSincerity is always the highest level of love words.
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